Dia Maha Hebat

salam a'laikum.

do you see 'Allah' ?

kita selalu terpersona dan terkesima bila kita nampak kalimah allah kat langit, kat telinga orang, kat baut tembikai, kat macam-macam tempat menarik lagi la. masa itu, mulut kita akan bertasbih, subhanallah.... tak salah pon. bagus... bagus.. segala pujian bagi Allah. tapi selama ini, kita tengok matahari naik turun, bulan penuh + sabit, embryo jadi fetus... hurm.. ada kita sedar akan kehebatan Allah itu?

The one who speaks to the others is speaking to oneself.

A true loving relationship is...

salam a'laikum...

the long 'journey' just begin.

well, IB was fun. alhamdulillah... BTN was almost 'fun'. you know what i mean. but still alhamdulillah.

during btn, we were given the opportunity to do flying fox and abseiling. i was excited tough when Pak Rani [one of the trainers] said that everyone will have the chance to do those thing. but when he asked the girls to tuck in their scarfs for safety purposes, i paused. hazirah paused. [she's my classmate]. suddenly everything that happened a year ago flashed infront of us. we looked at each other. neither smiling nor glooming. no expression. NONE! because we knew what was in our mind at that moment. tudung, keselamatan... those words make us traumatize to take the challenges. i know.. life must go on... i do realised that fact and i perfectly understand it. but, one year... ONE YEAR is not enough to heal the wound inside here. 

before i left KMB, my room-mate found two pieces of papers stapled together. she gave me. so, i read. and i read. and tears rolled down. [owh man, this is so uncool]. but they did. the words written on the paper had make me realise that everything we see, everything we think, everything we write, everything we do, ISLAM must be the basic of it. yes, islam is the basic of every single thing in our lives... including the content of our essay during the english HL paper 2, 2nd semester. 

you'll be in our heart, always insha-allah.

"A true loving relationship is energizing, not depressing and draining. Love is something abstract that cannot be defined easily. Love is also a gift from God and it is naturally soiled deep in every human's heart. However, true love must have sacrifice from both sides so that the love will not becoming dull and almost broken. One should have a positive outlook towards the person they love, always support their partner whenever they are up or down, be a good listener and pray for their happiness and success in life. With all these points, surely the true love relationship will shine brightly and remain long-lasting forever.

A true loving relationship id not only fixed for the love between men and women. It could be love towards God, parents and also friends. To make the relationship always energizing, the person must always think positive towards the person that he or she loves. It is simply easy as we can see the mother's love. When a mother gets angry, she tends to scold her child but because of her love is too much for the child, the love prevents her from doing that. If we always can see all the good things about our love one, we tend to appreciate and care for them as much as we can. So do our loved person, things will become more exciting and enjoyable when we are together.

Being in a true loving relationship, it is not simply saying 'I love you'. Once we are in love with somebody, we are willing to sacrifice ourselves for our love one. Each partner must play their important role in this relationship. Every time they face some problems, we can see it through their faces and hold their hands together. One should lend their shoulders and become the place for them to hold on. Being a good listener is also one of the best way to help the loved one. However, many people misunderstand this concept and yet the problem cannot be solved and the relationship is readily to finish.

Life is not a bed of roses. Sometimes people will be at an ease place and sometimes at the difficult one. Thus, it is everyone's job to stand by their love ones side whenever they are. When we really love somebody, we have to support them in whatever way we can. This is a true loving relationship. Usually, mental-support become the main idea for helping them. Good advices and motivational words are most needed when they are facing difficulties. Instead of meeting up often, one should be sensitive and alert towards the one they love. In other words, if we love someone, we shouldn't give them presents only but also words that can help them to continue this life that is full-of-hurdles.

Besides, love is divine and one cannot let the love go astray. Even the hastiest man on earth like Adoult Hitler really loved his mother. Therefore, one should always pray to God so that He will always protect the loved person and place then in a happy and successful state. If we truly love this person, we always want them to be happy, because it also will make us happy too. this thing can be reversed and vice versa. Isn't it is painful to see our love one in pain? Sometimes, as humans, we have no power or greatness for us to protect our relationship. Thus, it is better for us to put our hope in God, so that He will protect our relationship from continuing to stress us.

A relationship should not come along with bad intentions towards one another or else it will easily broken. When someone is in love, all the bad things must be put aside. Nowadays, people only think positively towards the one that they love only at the early stage of their relationship, but then as time passes by, there will be no more love words or even a smile for their partner. This thing should be avoided in a relationship/ one should maintain their love until death tears them apart. This one also can be called a true loving relationship. We need to serve our love one happily so that both sides can feel the true-loving relationship is soothing and energizing.

All the perceptions about true loving relationship can be depressing and draining should be thrown out for someone who are going to start the relationship. It all depends on the individuals which way they are going to manage their relationship. People who are sailing on a boat of true loving relationship should not experience bad things but sailing with calm and success."

 

yes, she wrote this essay. and i would be honoured to share it with you, dear readers. and yes, we miss her, truly missing her. can't believe it had been almost a year, 3rd june...will never be forgotten.  

Al-fatihah...

The one who speaks to the others is speaking to oneself.

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salam alaikum.

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insha-allah.

The one who speaks to the others is speaking to oneself.